tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30220779.post3220910084272885275..comments2023-10-11T09:54:23.588-05:00Comments on The best of days...: Parenting StyleLaurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13120400079714201927noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30220779.post-51719730121579256472007-07-26T20:55:00.000-05:002007-07-26T20:55:00.000-05:00What a thought provoking post! I knew that this s...What a thought provoking post! I knew that this subject was debated, and I myself have debated with other moms on the whole "demand-fed" or "scheduling" subject. How far it went is so sad.<BR/><BR/>Personally, I've been on both sides of the discussion. When my first was born, we were schedulers. When #2 came, we were demand-feeders. With #3, we have been a mixture of both. It's been neat to see how God has grown me as a mom. It's also neat to see how you can adapt and change as a mom to the needs of your entire family.<BR/><BR/>From what I can see, you guys are rocking this whole parent thing!<BR/><BR/>KierstynKierstynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12811812082522580472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30220779.post-72124573331885347642007-07-25T22:15:00.000-05:002007-07-25T22:15:00.000-05:00I'm honestly shocked that people are debating your...I'm honestly shocked that people are debating your parenting style. Every child is different and every family is different, parenting/mothering is hard work and we have to do what works best for our own family. <BR/><BR/>To say that there is a right or wrong way (or godly and ungodly way) when it comes to napping/eating is beyond me.<BR/><BR/>Steven is extremely blessed to have a mama that loves him enough to give him what he needs even if it's not always what he wants.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for sharing!Lindsey: Mama of Andrew, Adam, and Allyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04825711549429827804noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30220779.post-68090709441328096292007-07-25T14:45:00.000-05:002007-07-25T14:45:00.000-05:00Hmmm... Have to admit I'm stumped ... After being ...Hmmm... Have to admit I'm stumped ... After being a mom for 18 years and 5 kids, I didn't know that I had a parenting style. I had never really though of it.... guess I would probably fall under the 'demand-feeders' (Didn't know there was a name for it , or that it was hotly debated :o) <BR/><BR/>Although one thing that comes to mind, these two parenting style do align with our personalities and lifestyle at the moment, more then to any Biblical direction. I agree with Charlton, haven't found anywhere that tells me what time to put the kiddos down for a nap, how long, at what age to stop or anything like that. <BR/><BR/>Our current lifestyle and my personality are very 'demand-feeder' friendly :o) Try putting Billy down for a nap about the same time and same place everyday .... someone has to be at work, or activity, or who knows what else .... with teenagers there is always something. As I have looked back over the years I see that my 'parenting style' - if it is defined by naptimes and feedings has changed a great deal depending on the child and our life at the time. <BR/><BR/>There are way more important issue and with these we are consistant- how children behave in public, respect for parents and others, desire to search for God's way in all they do, immediate obedience, and so many more issues. Are my children a joy to be around??? ... is far more important to me, then how I pick what time to feed them.<BR/><BR/>Charlton and you are great parents and Steven seems so content. God will continue to guide you in the right way to make choice that are the best for him. Look at Billy and Steven both the same age but will certainly face different things the next few years (Billy with 4 older sisters he will need to be extra flexible :o) and beyond. How could God not direct us a little different in the day-to-day raising of these super boys!!!!~the ten of us~https://www.blogger.com/profile/12510273571130395495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30220779.post-1933887540097438662007-07-25T13:02:00.000-05:002007-07-25T13:02:00.000-05:00Thank the Lord for husbands who filter us :) Kris...Thank the Lord for husbands who filter us :) Kris had edited me many times (and I am grateful!)<BR/><BR/>Also, I wanted to say thanks for addressing this issue. It is sad how devisive it is when, really, if we focused on the fact that we are all united in wanting the very best for our children, we would see we really aren't that different.<BR/><BR/>It may be overstated, but I beleive it bears repeating-- "In essentials: unity, in non-essentials: liberty, in all things: charity."Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14607367134117146873noreply@blogger.com